I am trying out using evernote to share training notes with a friend. The notebook is shared between us but we're not getting notifications when someone posts. Is that normal under the basic account? The other issue I have is a note I had created disappeared once she started typing in it. She can see it. And it shows up under my "shared with me" but it says I no longer have access to see it. She says it's still shared with me. Is there some setting wrong or is it that we should be creating a new note each time and not replying under each other?