So this has been going on for more than a year now and Evernote still has not resolved it. It's completely dumbfounding to me; what are you thinking; who on earth wants to go into chat to try and find notes your collaborating on? Collaboration on notes is one of the CORE FEATURES of Evernote. Not having easy and organised access to shared notes really brings into question if I should move on to something more suitable
If this has been resolved, the solution is certainly not as obvious as it should be.....but would love some more input.